What is an Au pair?
A derivative from French, the word au pair means 'at par' or ‘equal to’ as the relationship is intended to be one of equals
However, it is to describe an arrangement between two parties, paid for by the exchange of mutual services.
The au pair is intended to become a member of the family albeit a temporary one, rather than a domestic worker.
An au pair is a domestic helper usually from a foreign country working for, and living as part of, a host family. Typically au
pairs take on a share of the family's responsibility for childcare as well as light housework, and receive a small monetary
allowance for personal use. Au pair schemes are subject to government restrictions which specify an age range usually from
late teens to mid to late twenties. In Europe, au pairs work up to 25 hours per week, often adding choosing to engage in part-
time study in their free time, generally study is focused on the language of the host country. If you are looking for longer hours
or someone with good English or more experience you may be better .considering a Mothers Help.
The essence of the Au Pair very much remains as it was; girls that come over to learn about the new culture and develop their
English There is still an expectancy for au pairs to be treated as equals in the family and not as domestic servants.
The modern day au pair job role has changed slightly in that they have adapted with the modern day family and are expected to help
out with household duties alongside their childcare responsibilities. Household duties expected from an au pair will be light daily
All the au pair candidates that we propose to our families have already been screened and all applications are thoroughly vetted and
•A completed, comprehensive application form
•A ‘Dear Family’ letter, comprising full details of their education, family, life style, any work experience, interests and hobbies.
•Copies of any qualifications and other relevant certificates.
•A Police Check from their country of origin.
•At least two written references which can either be character references or from recent employers.
•A valid Medical Certificate.
•Proof of their identity
Why hire an Au pair
Au pairs are becoming more and more popular with busy working families. Below we have highlighted just a few reasons
you may wish to consider an au pair.
Au pairs are great value to families for the services they receive in return. With the weekly salary of £70-£85 per week you
get a lot of childcare for your money. There is also the fact that au pairs will contribute to the house keeping which can be a
great help to parents that are working full time and don't fancy coming back to do all the housework. The savings you will
make is enough to justify the choice, but there are other more important reasons that au pairs are considered as a viable
option for childcare.
Having an au pair in your family home is a great opportunity for your children's education about different cultures. They will
build on what they learn at school about different countries. Children are very inquisitive and you'll be surprised at how much
information they pick up asking questions themselves this will give them a first, hand opportunity to experience the cultural
diversity in the world.
Having an au pair provides your family with a great degree of flexibility when it comes to childcare as having someone who
lives in with you is often great if you require baby sitting in the evening (an au pair will do up to 2 nights of babysitting free of
charge and if you need more you can arrange it by topping up their pocket money). With an au pair you have the flexibility to
arrange your childcare around what suits you as a family.
Help with housework
Your au pair will help with housework as part of their contract. This is something that you would not get from childminders or
nursery providers. Having an extra pair of hands do the dishes, vacuum or iron the children's clothes can be a great help
when you are returning from a day at work, leaving you time to enjoy a cup of tea and quality time with the children.
Care in your own home
Having an Au pair allows you to have a greater say on how your children are cared for. It gives you more control over their daily
activities and you have the flexibility to send them for daily activities during the day. The children also have the added advantage of
one to one .attention in comparison to nursery schools or child minders were they will be cared for alongside other children.
Hosting an Au pair
Getting the most out of your Au pair
Getting the most out of your au pair will depend on how well you build the working relationship that you have with your candidate. As
a host family there are set responsibilities that you have and if you can make your candidate feel at home as if she is a member of
the .family you are more likely to get the best care for your children and home
Host family Responsibilities:
•You should where possible invite your au pair to eat with you, if you eat as a family together. Naturally it is not always the case in all
households as people have different schedules, but if you are sitting to eat together be mindful not to leave your candidate out.
•Provide them with their own bedroom, internet access and meals
•Support the Au Pair to settle in,and familiarise her self with the children and you.
•Aupair must have the opportunity to improve their knowledge of the English language, preferably through a local college. If you need
your candidate to work longer hours and to be available through the day everyday then a mothers help candidate may be more
•The Host Family should help the candidate register with their local GP so that they have access to a Doctor if they need to during
their .stay with you
Au pairs can be expected to do a combination of child care and light housework duties. They are not responsible for housework that
:does not relate to the children’s or communal living areas that are kept tidy by all family members. An au pair's duties may include
•waking the children
•taking/collecting children to/from school
•helping with school homework
•playing with the children
•taking the children on outings to parks, playgroups and other activities
•preparing light meals for children
•doing the children’s laundry and ironing their clothes
•making the children’s beds
•cleaning the children’s bathroom
If you feel that you need more help around the house and possibly longer hours then you may be better applying for a Mother's help